Is it just me?

Is it just me or do the current Washington power folks seem a little arrogant? Maybe less than gracious winners? I've never seen such a rush to run over the opposition as well as the American people. Ms. Nancy recently said, in answer to some question, 'well, we won'. I mean pride in accomplishment is good, but what has been accomplished? Certainly not a stellar ethical reform. And I see more of the pig mentality. Spend, Spend, Spend!
Obama has tried to converse with the losers and include them in decision making, but I fear the effort was mostly to bring them into his way of thinking, rather than let them be real participants.
Is it just me or does our new President seem less inclined to preach hope as he did when he was running for the office? And I guess when he said he would change the way Washington was run, he did not realize he would not really be in charge. Perhaps he is seeing what President Bush ran into 8 years ago.
Is it just me or is it a clear possibility that the minority in Congress has the moral high ground? So far President Obama's Republican appointees have not had any tax scandals or any other indiscretion. Of course it may just be a matter of time. If it happens, there will be bold headlines, you may be assured of that.
And finally, is it just me or, are the losers of this election looking more gracious in losing than the losers of 8 years ago?